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Want to know How to F*cking Act Right? 

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Are you here because you aren’t sure what to wear to the next wedding? Or when you should use an apostrophe on your holiday cards? Or maybe because you want a general overview of modern day etiquette and how to f*cking act right? Here are our favorite posts to answer basic etiquette questions. 

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Maybe you’re here because your father-in-law complained about the cake you baked or your friend talks about her diet incessantly. Or maybe because your first date is a “sudden expert” on everything, including your job, your relatives, your finances (f*ck that guy, btw). 

Got a problem? Have a friend who just doesn’t know HTFAR? Got a coworker that is the worst? Send us a note. We will happily dedicate a post (and then send a personalized email or note) to them.

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We aren’t shy and we hate when people don’t know HTFAR (how to f*cking act right). Pour yourself a glass of wine, get cozy, and read on.  

Hi, We’re Elle, Emme and Jae

We are fun and funny (at least we think so), we are polite (most of the time), and we know how to act right. We come from the East and West Coasts. We love manners and grammar but know when they aren’t important.

We understand that your typical etiquette book isn’t gonna help you get by. We swear, probably too much. Drink just the right amount (most of the time), and are here to help you be your best-acting self (except when it isn’t the time to do so).

We also know that sometimes, manners are just plain boring.

We give advice based on real life experiences (yep. All these stories are true!), expectations, and the fact that you can’t please everyone all the time.

Take a look HERE for more about us and the HTFAR story.